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50 Fun And Free Things To Do In Sarasota Florida

2011-05-03T11:35:00.000-07:00

Having fun in Sarasota doesn’t require a lot of money. In fact, many things to see and enjoy in Sarasota are absolutely free. With 35 miles of beautiful beaches and six barrier islands, near-perfect weather and a variety of fairs, concerts, arts and cultural events, Sarasota offers a fun and inexpensive getaway.

Here is the website for a list of 50 fun and free (or cheap) activities that you can enjoy in Sarasota: Simply Sarasota

Holiday Wish #7: Waffles On Xmas Morning, Plus Free Shipping

2010-12-02T15:01:00.000-08:00

LMAO!! I received an email from Eddie Bauer with that subject line. I literally fell on the floor laughing!

This makes me sad about not being at the blogger thingy this December for what I like to refer to as the "Blogger Winter Formal." lol

Have one for me guys!

Cheap Batteries

2010-11-30T20:38:00.001-08:00

Okay, I did this post a while ago, but am reposting due to the holiday season. Batteries will be needed for many childrens gifts!!

The hubby found a really great deal on industrial strength batteries.
I know a lot of you have kiddies, so this may come in handy, especially around birthdays and Christmas:

Energizer Industrial Alkaline Batteries

Energizer Industrial Alkaline batteries are the perfect power solution for all your household and industrial needs. We save you money on AA, AAA, C, D and 9 volt batteries. Alkaline batteries go the distance in giving your tools and devices lasting fuel they need to keep delivering excellent results. We even sell the hard to find alkaline 9 volt battery by Energizer at a low price. Having your alkaline batteries shipped to you is a great way to stock up and pay less so that you're prepared for every household and work need.

BLING

2010-07-24T11:08:00.000-07:00

Okay kids, I just have to post something about the new 1/2 Carat Princess Cut Diamond 10K White Gold Earrings I got on ICE.com

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These earrings are Gorgeous!!! I love them and have been wearing them non-stop since I received them two weeks ago. I have gotten several compliments on them as well. They are Very much worth the low ICE price. I love ICE.com for all the great deals. They have items as low as $20!

And, as you know, I am a long-time affiliate with Ice, and can therefore provide my readers with the exclusive offer of up to 75% off the 10 items in their Summer Styles selection, as well as 20% off of jewelry from ICE.com sitewide. Use the following coupon code: FBSS2

WOW!! 54 surveys!

2010-06-23T09:38:00.000-07:00

A HUGE Thank you to everyone who filled out a survey for my dissertation! You all are great! It's amazing when people come through for you! Also, a special thanks to Smokkee, Waffles and Carmen for pimping the survey!

So, now all I have to do is score the survey and get the data into a spreadsheet for my Chairperson. Oh, that's only 216 individual assessment instruments! LOL

Anyways, school is almost over for me - only 2 more days, including today! Then, we are off to Florida! We are loading the truck on Friday and leaving Cali on Saturday. Good times. I will definitely have more time to blog after school is over! And, will blog from the road.

Can't wait to start my internship. I will be working with kids ages 5 to about 10 or 11 at a residential day treatment facility. These kids are supposedly in real trouble. The schools won't even take them in any longer for educational purposes. One day a week I will commute to Tampa to a residential treatment program for teens and kids. These kids have been removed from their homes and are also severely emotionally disturbed. Do you guys remember a while back a story in the news about some kids found in Florida that were kept in cages by their parents? Well, those are the kinds of kids that I will be working with. These kids' stories are so sad, but I am really looking forward to working with them. It's challenging, yet can be very rewarding!

Only 3 more surveys needed!!!!

2010-06-08T09:09:00.001-07:00

Thank you!! 10 more surveys needed!

2010-06-03T09:25:00.000-07:00

Thank you to all the wonderful bloggers who answered my call for help on my dissertation research survey!! I have received an outstanding 39 complete responses!!! When I told my dissertation chairperson, he was very excited!!! But, his very next statement was "let's see if we can get more!"

So, we are hoping to get about 10 more responses! I do show that many people started the survey, and stopped at various points. This is not a problem, and is your right to do so. However, I do want to let you know that if you go back into the survey, it will pick back up on the page you exited from. So, if you choose to go back and complete the full survey you will not have to start all over. This is a good thing, as I know it is very long!

So how 'bout it ladies and gentlemen? Can we get 10 more responses? Please feel free to forward the link to anyone you know might be interested in contributing to this important research project.

And thank you again in advance!

Dissertation Assistance Requested

2010-05-12T13:46:00.000-07:00

Dear Friends,

As many of you know, I am a fourth-year doctoral student at the American School of Professional Psychology at Argosy University in Orange County , CA . In order to complete my dissertation, I am seeking individuals to complete an online survey concerning the effects of childhood trauma on adult coping styles. The survey will be completed online and should take approximately 15-20 minutes to complete. Participation is completely anonymous and voluntary and you may withdraw your participation at any time by simply closing the survey using your web browser or exiting the study. If you wish to participate in this study, please click below or copy and paste the link below into your web browser:

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/AdultCoping

Thank you for your participation! If you know of any other individuals who may be interested in participating in this study, please feel free to forward this e-mail.

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me at tlt.gallardo@yahoo.com

Tina Gallardo
Argosy University Doctoral Candidate
Clinical Psychology
Email: tlt.gallardo@yahoo.com

Mother's Day - Please vote!

2010-04-12T13:53:00.000-07:00

Hi all! I have entered my mommy into the Ice.com beautiful Mom Photo Contest and would like your votes!!
Please vote for my mom here.

OR, if you prefer, you can enter your own mommy here.

Thanks and wish us luck!! Oh - and this is the picture I entered (mom's name is Linda):

My mom has been the greatest inspiration in my life. She has taught me to be a good person by living as an example. She is humble, God loving, expects great things of her children, and loves unconditionally. She has spent the last 2 years taking care of a husband who was diagnosed with cancer of the esophagus, and has remained an inspiration through it all. I love her with all my heart.

By the way, as a fan of my blog, Ice is giving my readers a 25% DISCOUNT on merchandise!
Please note that this offer excludes watches, engagement rings, and sale items. The coupon code is MTH25 and the direct link is as follows:

www.ice.com/?sourcecode=MTH25

Enjoy the shopping!

Free Cell Service, continued

2010-04-11T12:31:00.000-07:00

Okay so I got some more info to share. I'll summarize:

It looks like there are 3 cell plans to choose from. The top level, which includes unlimited talk, text and data is only $89.95. There are cheaper plans that have limits on minutes, etc. You can purchase their phone, or use your own, but you have to purchase their sim card. The first 30 days of service is free. Then the charge kicks in. However, the program asks that you refer/sign up 3 people for the program as well. When this happens, your cell service is free!

The program has 3 levels: $99, $250, and $499. Each level has an increasing number of reps that you can sign up, but 3 is still the minimum you must sign to get the free service. And, for everyone you sign up, they need to sign up 3 people as well; the peeps they sign, sign 3 more, etc. Every time this happens, YOU get $$$! My brother just joined the program and the guy above him is about 2 weeks in and already making $350 a week - the guy above him is making $2,000 a WEEK!!!!

So, the initial investment is $25 for the sim card + the program costs ($99 - $499, depending on which level you choose) + tax, unless you buy the phone (it is $399. It's the Samsung I7500. But, you get a $150 rebate when you sign up). Your 1st 30 days of cell service is free as well as your back office website, but when you sign up your 3 reps your back office website fee is now free also. So if you get people signed up within 30 days you will never have to pay for cell or website services.

You do not have to buy their phone, but if you ARE going to buy it, or think you might in the future just remember this--the rebates on the phone are only available if you buy the phone when you sign up to be a rep.

It sounds kind of complicated, so I'll stop here for now. But, I'm pretty excited about it!

Free Cell Phone Service Anyone?

2010-04-07T16:05:00.000-07:00

Anyone heard of Wow Mobile? If you refer 3 people, you get your cell plan for free! Anyone interested? I am currently looking into this and will let you know more info later!

Work from Home / Money Making Opportunity

2010-04-06T15:39:00.000-07:00

Hi everyone! Someone sent me this interesting webinar:

Download link: http://www.mediafire.com/file/nnjicjjmwyw

Is anyone familiar with this? Have any feedback?

Who is this???

2010-04-06T13:09:00.001-07:00

Who the hell is 日月神教-向左使 and how do I get it to stop posting comments to my blog?!?!?!?!

Affordable Jewelry!

2010-03-22T18:18:00.001-07:00

Guys - my favorite jewelry website is having a blow out sale!! Here are a few items I purchased:

Sterling Silver Crystal Pendant w/ Chain:

ICE STYLE: # PSY 019554
Retail Value: $120.00
ICE Price: $60.00
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You Save: 75%

21 Carat Sapphire and White Topaz Sterling Silver Bracelet:

ICE STYLE: # BSW 014938
Retail Value: $175.00
ICE Price: $85.00
You Save:51%

They arrived the other day and I LOVE them!!
Stock up now for birthdays, mother's day, etc!
And no, I'm not getting paid for this post! I just love the site!
Everything I've gotten there has been good quality.

Internship

2010-03-02T23:45:00.000-08:00

Okay, so some of you may know that I got an internship in FLORIDA, Pablo (does anyone get this reference?)!!!!

While "on tour" (aka internship interviews), I visited Fayetteville, NC, West Palm Beach, FL and Bradenton/Tampa FL. I got to visit with my mommy while in NC and my bro and granny in FL. I also caught up with an old friend from high school in West Palm. Here is a pic:

Ya! We look good, huh? We are about to celebrate our 20 year high school reunion!

So, I know I have not blogged in a while. I have been stoopit busy with school, internship crap and dissertation. I will try to be better, I promise!

New recipe

2010-01-15T00:55:00.000-08:00

Tried this recipe yesterday and it was pretty damn good! Ray even liked it!

Tangerine-Maple Glazed Chicken Thighs and Drumsticks

5 tablespoons canola oil
1 small red onion, coarsely chopped
1 quart tangerine juice or tangerine-orange juice, not from concentrate
4 sprigs fresh thyme
1 tangerine or orange, zested
1/4 cup pure maple syrup
1 tablespoon low-sodium soy sauce
1 teaspoon coarsely ground black pepper, plus more for seasoning
8 chicken drumsticks
8 bone-in chicken thighs
Salt
2 green onions, thinly sliced, for garnish
Grilled oranges and tangerines, for garnish

Directions:
Heat the grill to medium-high.
Heat 2 tablespoons of the oil in a medium saucepan over high heat, add the onion and cook until soft, 3 to 4 minutes. Add the juice and thyme, bring to a boil and cook, stirring occasionally, until thickened and reduced to approximately 1/2 cup, 20 to 25 minutes.
Strain the mixture into a bowl and whisk in the syrup, soy sauce and black pepper and let cool to room temperature. Can be made 2 days in advance and brought to room temperature before using.
Brush chicken on both sides with the remaining oil and season with salt and pepper. Grill until golden brown on both sides and just cooked through. Begin brushing with the glaze during the last 5 minutes of grilling. Remove to a platter and sprinkle with the green onion. Garnish with grilled citrus.

Long Beach Aquarium

2010-01-09T20:34:00.000-08:00

Wow - have not posted in a while! I am enjoying being on vacation from school and work! I have been trying to catch up on a lot of personal stuff, and trying to fit in some fun too. I recently visited the Long Beach Aquarium with my friend Sara. Here are some cool pics and video:

Some seals:

An exotic seahorse (in the middle of the pic, looks like plantlife!):

Octopus:

Me in front of fish tank:

Me in front of seal tank:

Sand shark:

Lion fish:

Me in front of jelly fish tank - ew!!

Big ass lobster and moneray eel:

Sweet little seahorse - my fav!!!

Vidoe of sawnose shark and black-tipped sand sharks:

Where's Waffles? Finding his true love....(AKA Vegas Day 1)

2009-12-17T13:18:00.001-08:00

So, yes, despite getting over a nasty cold, going into finals week and having to defend my dissertation proposal (this is a normal part of the program, and a pretty big deal) the following Monday, we went to Vegas for what I like to refer to as the "Blogger Winter Formal." I had to work until about midnight Friday night, so we flew in on Saturday afternoon. I checked us into the hotel and Smokkee ran off to register for the Blogger tourney at Caesar's. Checking in was uneventful, and I headed up to the room. I spent most of the day there, working on aforementioned proposal defense.

Fast forward several hours.....

Smokkee gets knocked out of the tourney and heads back to the room. We have a few drinks as I complete the beautification process and we head back to Caesar's to get our drink on and show our faces. The tourney was down to the final 2 tables, so we hung out to watch the rest of it, while chatting up some of our favorite blogger buddies like Pauly, CK, Waffles, Carmen, Bayne, and LJ.

Ray and Dr. Pauly:

Final table:

Me and Waffs:

CK:

Lightening:

Astin:

The final table ended with our buddy Astin as the winner:

Al also finished at the top.

Everyone was pretty torn on what to do next, and a lot of people went their separate ways, heading to the IP or going to watch the fight. Smokkee decides to play some pokah and Waffs and I head to Noodle Asia for food. LJ shows up a bit later to hang out and what happens next, I'll only refer to as "the noodle incident."

Later that evening, Smokkee and I decided to take Waffs on a bar crawl since he was feeling pretty worthless from the previous nights events. Somewhere along the way, I decided on a theme called "Where's Waffles." See if you can identify the casino:

Waffles gets a nice girly frozen drink:

Waffles shooting Patron silver - salt, lime and all! I was so proud....

And finally, Waffles finds love.... (see sexy cowgirl in background)

We end up at the IP with the rest of the bloggers and catch up with our homies:

Me and Falstaff:

Chad and Smokkee:

Me and Al:

It was so much fun reconnecting with everyone!

A Bunnny????

2009-11-17T13:24:00.000-08:00

What the heck was a bunny doing at the Chargers game? Sure enough, Carrie and I had to get our pic with him:

I'm a witch!

2009-10-31T19:26:00.000-07:00

I was trying to decide between an angel or a witch. Turns out, the witch costume was more "appropriate" for handing out candy, according to the hubby. bla bla bla...

Happy Halloween!

2009-10-27T23:34:00.001-07:00

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2009-10-27T22:35:00.001-07:00

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Charger Girls

2009-10-25T11:39:00.000-07:00

Well, we are smack in the middle of another Chargers season and it's time for the annual Charger Girls favorite picks!

Victoria is a rookie on the Chargers Girls team this year, and my top pick. She is originally from a small town in the Midwest and grew up attending dance and cheer classes, with the hopes to one day perform professionally.

Second pick is Ashlie. She is originally from Huber Heights, Ohio. My Homie!! She is enjoying her 3rd season with the San Diego Charger Girls. Her favorite events to participate in as a Charger Girls member are those that benefit American troops. Her most memorable of these events was performing in a USO Concert at Camp Pendleton last season. Ashlie is serving her first year as a Charger Girls team captain and is thrilled to be back for another season.

3rd place: Casie. She is a San Diego native enjoying her 3rd season with the San Diego Chargers. What a hottie!! Casie has experienced some unforgettable opportunities as a Charger Girls member. In 2006 she competed in NFL Network’s “NFL Cheerleader Playoffs” where she and her teammate earned the title of ‘Best Cheerleaders in the NFL’. Casie loves being a Charger Girls member because she is a diehard football fan!
4th place: Katie, as she likes to be called, is also a San Diego native. She is a huge Chargers’ Fan and proud of it! She is a rookie on the Charger Girls team and is thrilled to be performing for Chargers’ Fans in her hometown of San Diego. She considers herself an “outdoors” person. There is never a time when she will pass on camping, water sports or snowboarding.

These are the picks for this season, but you can check out more hotties on the Chargers website. Oh - and don't forget to check out the Charger Girls Calendar this year!

Shit my dad says

2009-10-04T22:26:00.000-07:00

"Do these announcers ever shut the fuck up? Don't ever say stuff just because you think you should. That's the definition of an asshole."

OMG - LMAO

Check out this guys twitter site.

Oh! And I played FSL Sunday's with Dr. Pauly.
Here's how I did:

Finished 17th
QB P. Manning IND 24.0
WR R. Wayne IND 13.4
WR C. Johnson CIN 14.4
WR R. Moss NEP 11.0
RB M. Forte CHI 20.0
RB A. Peterson CHI 0.0
TE J. Witten DAL 3.1
K S. Graham CIN 3.5
DEF D. NYG NYG 11.0

total points: 100.4

Poker Rules

2009-10-02T09:55:00.000-07:00

I played some poker this morning for the first time in a while. It didn't go so well. LOL - I think I overplayed Jacks:

So it's back to the basics for me! I think I need to relearn how to play texas holdem. I mean, I was out of this game in record time. It's embarrassing really. But, I guess skill only comes with practice. And the luck? Well, that seems to only come once in a blue moon!

It's Official. I PASSED

2009-09-26T21:08:00.000-07:00

Dear Ms. Tina Terebeckij,

PASS ALL

September 18, 2009

Dear Tina Terebeckij:

It is with great pleasure that the School of Psychology, Psy.D. program faculty and administration inform you of your comprehensive examination result of Pass. You have passed all of the 5 core content areas that were assessed by the comprehensive examination. Thus, you have satisfactorily demonstrated your knowledge and understanding of the core course work for the Psy.D. program in the areas of research/statistics, psychopathology, law and ethics, assessment, diversity and intervention.

Please feel free to discuss any aspect of the examination process with your academic advisor. We are interested in your comments and feedback regarding this examination process. Again, congratulations!

Sincerely,
Bina R. Parekh, Ph.D.

Comps Committee Chair, Psy.D. Program

Temping

2009-09-11T18:11:00.000-07:00

So I stated back at my job today, officially as a temp. Of course, my boss did not have me put into the system yet so I'm using someone else's log ins.
He tried to take the weekend on call away, too, but we worked around it. And, he never called the temp agency to let them know today was my first day. They don't even have me in the system and they have no idea what my pay rate is. The boss also cut off my work cell phone today, with no warning! sucks! And, HR shorted me on my last pay check. I don't know about this new life. But, I'm trying to stay positive. And creative about money.

I saw four clients last week. That was challenging, but somewhat rewarding. School started too, so that's a lot of fun. This semester will be pretty busy. I just have to stay organized and focused. When I look back at what I did over the past year (working full time, school full time and part time internship 1.5 hours away), I can hardly believe it. It seems like so long ago and I'm totally glad it's over. Eyes forward, nose to the grind and hopefully this year will fly by too!

Bubble Head

2009-09-07T19:53:00.000-07:00

Well, I played some poker last night and bubbled. LOL
It was only a 6 player sng and I played like crap. I got short stacked early, trying to experiment with different hands and had to go all in with KQo, getting beat by QQ. Oh well, I'll try again!

I've been thinking about playing the blogger battle on fantasy sports live again this year. Anyone else?

School starts this week. I have Medical Psych, Psychopharmacology, Child Treatment, Therapy Seminar and a credit for my Dissertation. Should be a heavy load, but I'm excited! This is my last year of classes! Hell ya!

Buckeyes Babeeeee!!

2009-09-03T17:56:00.000-07:00

It's that time of year!

This weekend the Bucks take on Navy.

Week 1 - Saturday 9/5
Ohio Stadium, OH ESPN 12:00 PM ET

Therapy

2009-09-03T11:35:00.001-07:00

I see my first client at my new internship site today. He's a 13-year old boy with anger issues. He also had a suicide attempt about a year ago.

Wish me luck!

Also, this is my last week of full time work. Next week, I start the Monday/Friday thing. I guess it's good in a way. It will allow me to focus on school and my clients; the work I'm supposed to be doing. I won't constantly be in the car traveling here or there. And, I will get to see more of the hubby. Finances will tighten up a bit. But, it will be good for us. I'm really looking forward to this new phase of my life!

Cheers!

Famous Canadians

2009-09-02T18:56:00.000-07:00

I found out recently that Bodog now allows our brothers and sisters to the North play on Bodog Poker Canada. Congratulations! I started to think of what famous peeps are from Canada and here is a short list of the female hotties I came up with.

Of Course, the lovely Pamela came up first:

Next, one of my favorite singers, Shania Twain:

A lot of people really like Avril:

Some others that come to mind are Jim Carey, Howie Mandel, Alanis Morissette and Celine Dion.

Since I'll be having more free time now, I will be able to play some too! I may even be able to play some of the blogger tourneys. But, first I need some practice....

Cheap Batteries

2009-08-30T17:21:00.000-07:00

The hubby found a really great deal on industrial strength batteries.
I know a lot of you have kiddies, so this may come in handy, especially around birthdays and Christmas:

Energizer Industrial Alkaline Batteries

Energizer Industrial Alkaline batteries are the perfect power solution for all your household and industrial needs. We save you money on AA, AAA, C, D and 9 volt batteries. Alkaline batteries go the distance in giving your tools and devices lasting fuel they need to keep delivering excellent results. We even sell the hard to find alkaline 9 volt battery by Energizer at a low price. Having your alkaline batteries shipped to you is a great way to stock up and pay less so that you're prepared for every household and work need.

In Loving Memory

2009-08-29T11:14:00.000-07:00

My Grandma on my dad's side recently passed away...

LORAIN — Anna Terebeckij, age 83, of Lorain, died on Sunday, August 23, 2009 at Anchor Lodge Nursing Home following a brief illness. She was born May 19, 1926 in Batschiw, Ukraine.

Anna was employed as the head cook at Harvest House in Woolworth's at the Elyria Mall for 16 years. She also had worked for Airport Tavern on Oberlin Avenue. Anna worked in the food service industry for 30 years altogether.

She was a member of the St. John Ukrainian Byzantine Catholic Church, where she was also a member of the Apostleship of Prayer. Anna enjoyed her flower garden and cooking. She was an exceptional cook, and that was what she was known for.

She is survived by her daughters, Sophia Sperry-Stanchak, Olga Lydick, Mary (Thomas) Maziarz-Webb, Dianne Pelton, and Anna "Susie" Lopez, 15 grandchildren and 25 great grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her husband of 51 years, Mikolaj "Mike" in 1997, son, Ores in 1997, grandson, Andre Michael Lopez in 1977, her parents, Antruck and Anastasia (nee Kurol), two brothers and three sisters.

10 Money Saving Tips

2009-08-27T11:14:00.000-07:00

Since I will be working only part time after next week, I have had to come up with some strategies for cutting finances and saving money. I looked on line for ideas and even read a book that recommended buying a goat. LOL While I won't be doing that, the following are some of the better ideas I will be doing:

1. Plan your meals
Yes, plan out your meals for the week so that you are not buying food you will not use. This will help to eliminate wasted food and wasted money.

2. Eat your food
Okay, so you've planned your meals for the week. Eat what you buy. Commit to this. Try to stay away from feeling lazy and not cooking. It's okay to eat out, but try to limit that to once a week. And see #7 below.

3. Reevaluate your cable/phone/internet service.
Consider downgrading your Internet service if you can cope with a slower connection. Also, think about whether or not you need 9,000 cable channels, caller ID, voice mail and call waiting.

4. Reevaluate your car insurance
Consider increasing your deductible. Is the entire household on the same insurance? This could get you a multi-car discount. Also, most insurance companies offer several different types of insurance (renters, for example). Taking multiple types of insurance through the same carrier can allow for discounts as well.

5. Stop buying things you don't need
Seems logical, huh? Well, it is. Stop the impulse buying. Before making a purchase, think "Do I really need this? or " Can I live without this?"

6. Cancel clubs
Self explanatory. Cancel wine clubs, book clubs and gym memberships you have not used for more than a year.

7. Happy hour/taco Tuesday
This can be a great way to save money. Allow yourself to dine out once a week. But, be smart about it. Hit your local pub for happy hour and taco Tuesdays. They will usually have half price adult bevs and $1 tacos.

8. Dinner specials at the grocery store
Check your local grocery store for dinner specials. The Albertson's down the street from us offers an 8-piece chicken dinner, coleslaw, potato wedges and a 2 liter of Coke for $7.99. This will usually feed us for 2 days!

9. Turn off the lights/unplug things
When you leave a room, turn off the light. Consider whether you need so many lights on at night and replace bulbs with those of a lower wattage. Look around your house for outlets. Is there anything unnecessarily plugged in? For example, we have a kegorator. When it does not have beer in it, it's unplugged and we have a phone system with 4 phones around the house. Once they are charged, they get unplugged. Also, consider unplugging your cable boxes when they are not in use.

10. Buy things on special
This may take a little more work, but it's worth it. Look at the ads you get in the mail that you may normally just throw away. For example, if you see something on special at CVS buy it. Then look at your grocery store ad, then the Rite Aid ad, etc. You will have to travel to separate locations, but you will save $$$.

Other money saving ideas include changing your hairdresser to a less expensive salon, or trying to color your hair yourself. However, tread cautiously with this one ladies! Also, try using coupons. Many stores will have double or triple coupon days. Look for these. Try the generic versions of pricey products. They often contain the same ingredients. And, go to matinees instead of evening show times at the movies.

Times are tight for many of use given the economy and the loss of our job. I hope this was helpful. If you have additional ideas, please share them!

Ookisa review

2009-08-21T20:58:00.000-07:00

Okay, this is kind weird, but, I got this stuff and was not able to find any kind of review on it on the web. So, this is my review.

I was on some website (US weekly?) that had an ad for a shampoo line that promised "breathtaking volume. Mesmerizing shine. And unyielding resilience." for your hair. AND, you can try the products for FREE (or so I thought...so gullible). Anyways, when I got the stuff, it came with an invoice that I did not really look at, because I thought it was "free," except for $2.00 in shipping. I did some more searching on line and read about one woman ordering the products and realizing once her credit card was charged a month later that there was actually a TRIAL period of 30 days.

So, I went back to previously discarded invoice and noticed that yep, it is indeed a 30 day trial. I decided to try the stuff anyway. Hey, at worst I'll just return it and pay shipping. So, after trying the stuff for about 3 weeks now, I feel like I can offer a decent review of the product (unsolicited advertising here).

The trial system comes with three parts: shampoo, conditioner and something called the Nighttime Follicle Renewing Serum (this stuff promised hair regrowth too). The shampoo was very cleansing for my hair, but made it feel kind of dry. My hair takes a lot of abuse from me (coloring, straightening) and so I need something that is really moisturizing. Well, the conditioner makes up in that area for the shampoo. They both smell great, too, and are completely natural. Overall, thumbs up on these two. I did not notice any "hair regrowth" during that time however.

But, the "Nighttime Follicle Renewing Serum" sucked. It totally burned my scalp. You put it on at night and leave it on while you sleep. I tried it a few times, but could not get over the burning, so stopped using it. I ran out of the conditioner way before the shampoo, too. All in all, the shampoo and conditioner are not bad products. I might even purchase them, except for the price. Get this - you can order the complete system for only $89.99! And, they will send you the product each month automatically. No thanks.

My hair dresser recently recommended another product that I really, really, love. Its Pantene Ice Shine, and it's VERY moisturizing for my hair! Love it!
Girly post over.

Just stuff

2009-08-20T21:56:00.000-07:00

Well, with comps now over, I'm moving onto my next focus: my new part time internship. I will be interning at Providence Community Services, working with severely emotionally disturbed kids. This is what I want to do with my life! I think..... we'll see.

But, over the last few weeks I have also been going back and forth with my boss regarding my j-o-b. It seems he does not like my school and internship schedule much and is forcing me to resign. Perfect.

It now looks like he's going to let me work part time, a couple days a week, and the weekends. This will be sufficient I suppose. At least I won't be as stressed as in the past working full time, going to school full time and doing the part time internship thingy.

Only 2 more weeks of full time employment!

Comps Day 2

2009-08-12T08:49:00.000-07:00

Well, day 1 was horribly tough! 12 hours of grueling work.

Wish me luck as I head into day 2 - Ethics and Statistics!

Comprehensive Exams

2009-08-09T15:19:00.000-07:00

I'm getting ready to take the Comps next week and am immersed in Monday's sections: Psychopathology and Psychological Testing and Assessment. I have 12 hours and 16 pages to answer questions ranging anywhere from Bi-Polar Disorder to Dissociative Identity Disorder to Alcoholism to Anxiety and Depression AND the MMPI-2, the PAI, the Rorschach and the WAIS-III (and other psychological tests!).

This is the hardest thing I will probably ever do academically.
Wish me luck!!!

Wow - has it really been so long?

2009-08-02T10:43:00.001-07:00

I can't believe it's been so long since my last post. I guess time flies when you are busy. I have been wrapping up my part-time internship and am preparing for next year's. I will be working with severely emotionally disturbed kids. Should be a good learning experience. I also wrapped up my summer semester at school. Hard to believe I will be startingg my third year soon. Whew. It's almost over (the school part) - one more year of that.

I am also preparing for comps (comprehensive exams). They happen the week of Aug. 10 and will be a total biotch. They are a series of exams over everything we have learned thus far. I get a bunch of questions a 9am and have until 9pm to respond. The next day, the same thing. All week long! Ugg

In the midst of all that, I have started the application process for my big, full time internship. Apps are due by mid-December, so I have some time. But, I know it will sneak up on me fast.

Lastly, I have started my dissertation. Quess what it's on? The Effects of Childhood Trauma on Adult Substance Use, Gambling Behaviors, Problem Severity and Personality Variables. Should be interesting. I wanted to do something with kids, but it turns out that it's way to difficutl to get approval from the Internal Review Board. So, I am examining adult behaviors as related to childhood.

I miss keeping in touch with you all! Ray and I will likely make the trip to Vegas in December, so I look forward to that!

Annie vs Joan

2009-05-10T23:01:00.000-07:00

Are you F-in kidding me?!?!?!?!

Ray told me that this shit was rigged from the start of tonight, but I did not believe him.
I thought the bitch that won the most money and did the best job would win.
To me, that was Annie. BY A LONG SHOT.

So how the HELL did Joan Rivers win????

I thought the smart thing for Donald would be to make Annie win.
I mean, he is invested in all those casinos and everything.
AND Annie raised almost triple the amount of $$$ than old ass Joan won.

OMG I'm gonna have to revisit this tomorrow ,after wine.
Much to emotional right now. fuming.
I'm not one to allow myself to get too emotional on the blog, but for some reason, this has me all riled up. Waffles style. more later.

Played some pokah

2009-04-28T12:49:00.000-07:00

I'm on break from school now - thank God!
So, I decided to play poker this past Sunday.
I played in the Brit blogger game and I actually made it to 14th place (out of 42).
Not too bad for not playing in about six months. But, I did get some pretty nice hands!
Maybe I'll play again next weekend.

The rest of the day was spent slacking off watching TV and movies, then going to the grocery store for some much needed libations.

I'm a sexy bitch!

2009-04-26T11:36:00.001-07:00

I received a surprising, yet flattering, award from my girlie Carmen:

I guess now I have to say five things that are sexy about me. So, here goes:

1. My love of sports. All guys love a girl who loves sports. In fact, I met my husband while watching college football at the ESPN Zone in Las Vegas. He has been a slave to my love ever since.

2. I'm a sexy school girl (this means smart!). I love learning and constantly challenge myself to reach for higher and higher goals. This goes not only for school, but for life in general.

3. My big boobs. Enough said.

4. My sense of humor. Always maintaining a healthy sense of humor is key to maintaining life satisfaction. Humor can lighten tense situations and leads to longer life!

5. And lastly, I'm great in the....kitchen! I love to cook and try new recipes. While some have been a bust, others are very good. It's always fun to see how my husband reacts to the new and creative dishes I prepare!! LOL

In receiving this prestigious award, I am also responsible for passing it on to three deserving fellow bloggers.

Now, on to the nominations.

I hereby nominate the following biotches for the award:

1. CK - she's one sexy brainy biotch!! An attorney livin the dream in Las Vegas.

2. Nadia - hottie from that "other" country! She's smart, sexy and is our Bodog hookup.

3. LJ - wicked smart and a quick wit to match! She's got gorgeous red hair and she's with one of my favorite other bloggers.

My nephew

2009-03-22T01:06:00.000-07:00

Love you baby

2009-03-07T02:12:00.001-08:00

To my Husband...

2009-03-07T02:02:00.000-08:00

Ever since I was a baby girl I had a dream
Cinderella theme
Crazy as it seems
Always knew that deep inside that there would come that day
But I would have to wait
Make so many mistakes
I couldn't comprehend
As I watched it unfold
This classic story told I left it in the cold
Walking through an open door that led me back to you
Each one unlocking more of the truth

I finally stopped tripping on my youth
I finally got lost inside of you
I finally know that I needed to grow
And finally my mate has met my soul

[chorus]
Finally
Now my destiny can begin
Though we will have our differences
Something strange and new is happening
FinallyNow my life doesn't seem so bad
It's the best that I've ever had
Give my love to him finally

MMMMMMMM

I remember the beginning you already knew
I acted like a fool
Just trying to be coolF
ronting like it didn't matter
I just ran away
And on another phase
Was lost in my own space
Found what its like to hurt selfishly
Scared to give of me
Afraid to just believe
I was in a jealous, insecure, pathetic place
Stumbled through the mess that I have made

Finally got out of my own way
I've Finally started living for today
I finally know that I needed to grow
And finally my mate has met my soul

[chorus]
FinallyNow my destiny can begin
Though we will have a different set
Something strange and new is happening
FinallyNow my life doesn't seem so bad
It's the best that I've ever had
Gave my love to him Finally

MMMMMMMM

Finally, Finally

Finally
Now my destiny can begin
Though we will have our differences
Something beautiful is happening, happening
FinallyNow my life doesn't seem so bad
It's the best that I've ever had
Give my love to him finally

Foiled!!!

2009-03-01T13:34:00.000-08:00

One of my classmates sent the following email out on Thursday:

Dr. Nicholson,
There is no reflection paper listed on the syllabus for 3/2/09 is that correct? should we read the humanistic approach yet, we haven't even talked about IBCT. Please advise.
Reply to All, I CCed the entire class.
Thanks!

Her response:

Hello Albert,
Your classmates and I appreciate your email. What a semester we are having, no? An opportunity to strengthen our ability to negotiate the unexpected and be more flexible. Below is how we will move forward in the class.

March 2, 2009:
Reflection Paper due on Humanistic approach and anything (in and out of class) that has come before it

Dr. Nicholson

UGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG..........What an idiot! Now I have homework and my plans for the beach are foiled!

Weeeeeeeeee

2009-02-26T13:04:00.001-08:00

Get yours at SweetIM.com

I have NO homework this weekend!! Wooooo hoooo!

Maybe I'll head down to the beach!

I might just play me some pokaaaaah

2009-02-26T12:58:00.001-08:00

Two WSOP Main Event seats and two preliminary seats will be awarded as part of the Tournament of Champions. One preliminary seat will be awarded to the Player of the Month for March, April and May!

I taught my nephew a few words while I was in Cleveland...

2009-02-22T13:02:00.000-08:00

...including the word "fart." My sister was not pleased. LOL

My new niece!!

2009-02-12T20:51:00.000-08:00

I'm in Cleveland this week visiting my sister, who just had her second baby.
Her name is Mallory Milan and she is adorable!!! My nephew is the cutest little boy I have ever seen and cracks me up all day long! Love them! Here are some pics:

Hot chicks of poker

2009-02-11T22:27:00.000-08:00

So who do you guys think is the hottest chick in the poker world?

Shannon Elizabeth? This actress turned semi pro poker player has had some pretty decent results. Cashing in 4 WSOP events and finishing 3rd in the NBC'S National Heads Up Poker Championship.

Clonie Gowen?

Cindy Violette?

Erica Schoenberg?

Vanessa Rousso?

Jennifer "Jennicide" Leigh? Playboy model/Poker Player. How much better can you get than a girl being a poker player and a playboy model.

What about Jennifer Tilly, Courtney Friel, Evelyn Ng, Kara Scott or Isabelle Mercier?

I got bling

2009-01-20T14:12:00.000-08:00

In the interest of trying out that jewelry store I recently told you about, I had to have some bling.
I received these the other day: 1/4 Carat Diamond 14K White Gold Heart Earrings

They came in this adorable little white box with a blue bow:

And inside that was a blue velvet box:

Containing these!! yeah!

They really are high quality. I love the way they are hinged so that there is no little back to put on. They are a hoop, but shaped like a heart, as shown above, and lock together around your ear. And they are very sparkly!! The best part was the price. Check it out.

Hmmmm.....what should I try next?

Pfffttttt......

2009-01-11T20:41:00.000-08:00

Chargers go bye bye.

Gooooooooo Chargers!

2009-01-10T19:39:00.000-08:00

The Chargers play the stoopid Steelers tomorrow in the next round of the playoffs. Think we can win? I DO. Here are some pics from some previous games. Ray and I tailgated our assess off last weekend with our season ticket buddies, enjoying sushi, tacos and a few adult beverages!

Lauren and me:

Carrie, her mom and me:

Ray and me:

More pictures found here, including cheerleaders!!

"Home" for the holidays

2009-01-02T14:02:00.000-08:00

Ray and I headed to Charlotte, NC to visit my mom for Christmas.
It was so good to see my mommy! Her husband was diagnosed with cancer of the esophagus about six months ago and has been recovering, so this trip was extra special.

Here are some pictures:

Making cookies and gingerbread houses with mom. This is a Christmas tradition we used to do when I was a kid.

Ray Christmas morning sporting some new freezer mugs.

Mom's hubby. Ray found this "reindeer pooper" toy at a store and thought it was hilarious. He had to get it for him!

Me and mom.

Me and mom heading to the airport soon. The trip is over, but was very fun!

GORGEOUS bling from ice.com

2008-12-29T12:16:00.000-08:00

Okay - now all you husbands and/or boyfriends who are in the dog house because you got the wife/girlfriend a vacuum cleaner or something "practical" for Christmas can redeem yourselves. Do your woman right this Valentines day with diamonds or jewelry at affordable prices! A GF of mine recently turned me onto this site called Ice.com. It's a discount site for some awesomely sparkly baubles! Check it out (my personal fav) 1/2 Carat Princess Cut Diamond 14K White Gold Earrings:

Evidently, these (above) were shown on the Dr. Phil show. They retail for $1,000 but you can get them on the website for the low, low price of $495 OR 5 payments of $99. They also received rave reviews!

They literally cut prices in half, allow for payment plans and offer FREE shipping on anything over $150. Here are a few more examples:

These babies also retail for $1000. On sale for $495. (9-10mm Cultured Tahitian Pearl and 1/5 Carat Diamond 14K White Gold Leverback Earrings)

Ditto as above for these. (Michiko-3/8 Carat Black Diamond and Cultured Pearl 14K White Gold Spiral Earrings)

The site is having its 2009 Winter clearance sale now as well - up to 75% off! Hurry and make that lady happy! Or, start shopping for Valentines Day, which is right around the corner (hint hint hubby)!

Vegas day two, and three

2008-12-22T12:44:00.000-08:00

Woke up Sunday morning around 6am and took 2 Aleve to stop the throbbing in my head.

Woke up again around 10 and took 2 more. Note to self: don't try to keep up with Al in the alcoholic beverage drinking department (yes, I tell myself this every year).

We decided to have breakfast in the room. It's always good to get something greasy in the tummy to help with a hang over. So we got to IP a little late - around 2pm, during the 2nd round of football games. Our first stop was the bar to get our bucket of beer (hair of the dog), then headed over to find a table amidst all the other bloggers. My next goal was to search out Falstaff.

Soon after we sat down, however, he appeared at my side, saving me the search. Falstaff!!! Always good to see you! We talked for a long while about the Charlotte area, and he gave us advice about certain areas to scout out for our move in the next year and a half or so (thanks!). Then Dawn Summers shows up and Falstaff bets her that he can name more former Panthers players than she can name current Pats. Falstaff's 15 went down to Dawn's 35 players. Here are some pics:

Soon after that, the very lucky team of Joanne and Buddy started buying shots. Here's a pic of Recess Rampage, Joanne, BD, Smokkee, Joshua Carlson and me, the love elf, doing our first of several (ugg) shots that day:

Oh, and Bayne finally showed up sometime into the second games. I always have to get my pic with him - it's tradition. I just decided that right now - lol.

The happy couple:

On our way home Monday, we hit some pretty nasty weather:

So that's it for this year's trip report. It was a great time and always fun to see friends. As usual, I wish I would have spent more time with the many other bloggers there, but there's always next year, and the next. A special thanks to Peaker for going to dinner with us Saturday. Unfortunately, I did not get any pictures of us! boooooo elf.

Gideon needs our help.

2008-12-19T19:39:00.000-08:00

Dear Compassionate Animal Lover,

Gideon is a one year old, white German Shepherd who has endured one of the most horrific injuries a dog can endure. He was found in an Orange County park in terrible condition with maggots covering over half of his body; he was then impounded with Orange County Animal Shelter. Coastal German Shepherd Rescue (CGSR) was asked to assist with rescuing Gideon and getting him the appropriate medical care. He was rescued from their shelter on 11/18/08.

I am a faithful donator to CGSR and believe in thier mission. In fact, we adopted our baby Smokkee from this organization. I can vouch for them. I have no alterior motive for this post (no ad $$ for example), other than simply doing the right thing. We are reaching out to anyone who can help us fund the enormous medical bill that Gideon will be facing. Medical bills exceeding $12,000 are anticipated.

Read more below about Gideon's journey.....

Gideon en route to Dr. Wheaton's (no, not Wil !)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
He is safe with us now, but he has a very long recovery ahead of him. It is believed that he was hit by a car and then dragged. He is missing most of the skin on his left side and pockets of skin are missing on his right side. His injury is a few days old and therefore there is a lot of necrotic skin. He is resting comfortably under the care of a wonderful vet team. Dr. Wheaton feels that even though this is the largest degloving injury he has ever seen....that with vet care, patience and a lot of love...we can pull him through! His recovery is going to be a minimum of 6 months.
Strength in a name....
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

We are now calling him Gideon, meaning strength. He is very stoic and although he is in unimaginable pain, he rests his head on your hands to look up to you for reassurance. He is no more than a year old and will be a stunning boy once he heals. We need all of your well wishes and paws crossed so that he can stay strong through this next crucial period.
Join us to help Gideon!

(The staff changes Gideon's bandages twice a day and also packs his wound with sugar. The sugar acts as an antibacterial and encourages the regranulation of new tissue.

Please make a donation today! Anything helps - $10, $15 or $20. Together, we will make a difference. WE ARE ONLY A FEW HUNDRED DOLLARS AWAY FROM REACHING OUR GOAL.

Mail:
Coastal German Shepherd Rescue
PO Box 50726
Irvine, CA 92619

Online:
Coastal German Shepherd Rescue

Telephone:
Alicia Pet Care Center (Gideon's Fund): 949-768-1313

Vegas Day One

2008-12-14T12:43:00.000-08:00

We got up at the crack of dawn yesterday morning, got ready, packed and dropped baby Smokkee off at the doggy hotel, then made the 4 hour trek out to Vegas. We got to our room around 1:30 so Smokkee had to rush off and get registered for the tourney. I spent the next few hours "luxuriating" in the room - you know, girly stuff like doing my hair, makeup, hanging out having some "me" time.

I headed over to the Venetian around 4pm and the bloggers happen to be on their first break from the tourney. I saw Kat first, then CK and Peaker! I was so excited to see everyone! However, it was during break and conversations were short - something like "Love Elf! Great to see you! Gotta pee - we'll talk more later!" I headed over to the poker room to look for Smokkee and also saw Don, Blinders, Aston, Bayne, BadBlood and several others. Break was soon over and everyone returned to their respective tables. I headed to the bar to find my very good friend Al.

He was sitting with Joanne and another friend, Mike. We proceeded to order drinks and talked for hours. As other bloggers busted out and made their way to the "losers lounge" as some called it, I captured the moment in photos:

Al and me:

Bobby, me and Al:

The famous Dr. Pauly and me:

Smokkee, Joe Speaker and Al:

BuddyDank and me:

More to come later. I'll link everyone up later, too. Just wanted to get a brief update out!
Oh - and I'm disapointed to report that one of my very favorite bloggers, Waffles, is not in attendence this December. Miss you Waffs!!

Almost there

2008-12-12T20:38:00.000-08:00

I can't believe this is the last week of Fall semester!
Whew - I've almost made it through. I have one more final paper due, then I'm done. For now. Well at least done with school for the next month or so. Then, it's back to the grind.

One and a half more years of classes. Then a year of internship.
The time is actually goring pretty fast. But, the last 3-4 months has been tough. I'm learning a lot though, which I guess is the point.

So, I'm really excited about seeing everyone in Vegas. Hotels and gas are so cheap right now that we really couldn't pass on it. And, it will be nice to get away and celebrate the semester end. During break, I hope to blog more and post lots of pictures of the last 3 months - so much has happened.

My nephew turned 2, Ray and I celebrated our 1 year anniversary and my mom turned 60. None of which I posted about. Ho hum...
Busy bee, busy bee.

So I'm mostly done with Christmas shopping, which is awesome. I have a few more things to buy, but I know what they are. These days I go with a lot of gift cards. They are a no-brainer, and the shipping cost is minimal! Ray and I are traveling to Charlotte for Christmas to see my mom and her husband. He was diagnosed with cancer about 4 months ago and it will be good to see them. After some pretty intense chemo, radiation and surgery, the docs report that they got all the tumor and the prognosis is positive. Now we just have to fatten him back up!

We Vegas!

2008-12-11T14:25:00.001-08:00

As some of you may now know, we have decided to make the treck to Las Vegaaaaaahhhhhhhssssssssss!!!!!!!!

So, we are driving out Saturday morning and staying @ TI.
Looking forward to seeing everyone!!!

Rakeback, anyone?

2008-12-09T07:19:00.000-08:00

Decided to look into some rakeback deals and promotions that are being offered for the last month of the year. Of course as always the big 3 of rakeback are the ones that had the best stuff on their sites.

RakeBrain.com caught my attention the most. As always they have very good sign-up bonuses and return percentages but they got some pretty cool rake chases this month. For Betfair Poker they got a free roll up for grabs where the top 9 raker's of the month battle for the prize pool, which is their rake total and will probably reach a substantial number as the clock to the deadline winds down. CelebPoker is offering something pretty sweet in my opinion as well. They are hosting a 30,000 Euro prize pool game which different levels of raker's could qualify for and they have until January 15th to do so. Found this pretty cool so hopefully you guys will use this and get some free money from RakeBrain.

Smokkee and Iggy have bounties in this week's Bodonkey

2008-12-08T16:47:00.000-08:00

On Tuesday December 9th, the Blogfather sits with a T$109 bounty and on Thursday December 11th, Smokkee will play with a T$109 bounty on his head. Last time Smokkee played The Bodonkey with a bounty, he took it down and captured his own bounty.

You can download poker for free and play the Bodonkey Tue and Thu nights at 9:05pm ET. T$600 is added to the prize pool every week.

Bodog is also offering prop bets on several poker bloggers. Smokkee is the overall favorite to finish on top of the leaderboard and win the Tournament of Champions December 18th. That should be some trick since he's gonna miss the first hour and blind down while we pick up our luggage from the airport and drive to my Mom's in Charlotte, NC.

Thanksgiving Day Donkery

2008-11-28T10:32:00.000-08:00

Made a rare appearance in last night’s Bodonkey

We rushed back from smokkee’s brother’s house after Thanksgiving dinner to play in the Bodonkey.

I haven’t played in a while so I was a bit rusty. I lost a bunch of chips early on with QQ vs. AA. Fortunately, I didn’t go broke with it and was able to stick around a while. After limping too much and hanging around pots I had no business being in, I found myself with about 700 chips.

I then looked down at AK.

Love_elf’s poker tip of the day: don’t min-raise AK in a blogger game then shove on a low flop into another player’s set of 2’s.

I don’t get to play that much and even though I was unlucky a couple of times, I still had a fun time.

Smokkee won $100+T$109 for 1st and sits atop the leaderboard after 10 tournaments in the Bodog Blogger Series II.

Bounty on Waffles tonight!

2008-11-20T09:13:00.000-08:00

T$109 Bounty on Waffles Tonight @ 9:05pm ET

9:05pm ET: Bodonkey II
Buy-in: $10 + $1
2500 Starting Chips / 15 min blind levels
Prize Pool will be distributed as per Bodog's standard multi-table payout table.

BONUS PRIZES:
1st place: T$109 ($100K Buy-in) + $25 Casino Credit
2nd place: T$75
3rd place: T$50
3 bubble players: T$11 (entry refunded)

Knock out Evelyn Ng tomorrow (Thu 11/13) and get T$109

2008-11-12T16:17:00.000-08:00

On Thursday November 13th, 2008 poker sensation, Evelyn Ng will compete in the Bodog Blogger Tournament Series.

There will be a bounty on her head for T$109 to play in Bodog's $100K Guaranteed Tournament occurring each Sunday at 4 PM. If Evelyn wins this tournament, the T$109 credit to play in Bodog's $100K Guaranteed Tournament will go to the poker blogger that places 1st runner up.

This blogger tournament series is open to poker bloggers worldwide and runs on Tuesday and Thursday evenings at 9:05 PM ET.

More details are available at the official blogger series site at http://www.bodogbloggertournament.com/

Learn more about Professional Poker Player Evelyn Ng at http://poker.bodoglife.com/team-bodog/evelyn-ng.html

Just what is Bodog's 100K Guaranteed Tournament? With one of the biggest overlays in the industry, the value of this tournament is literally unbeatable!
Find out more at http://poker.bodoglife.com/tournaments/100k-guaranteed-tournament.html

Today, I rest.

2008-11-08T16:58:00.000-08:00

Last night I worked until about midnight, came home and watched a movie with Ray. Actually 1 and 1/2 movies. Went to bed around 3am. Silly, huh? I had to get back up at 6am to do some work (I'm on call). After I worked, I called my sis to do a webcam with her and my precious nephew. His 2-yr birthday was Thursday and they are having his party today. Ray and I got him a play kitchen. Ray thinks it's too girly, but I think it's fine. He loved it! He's so inquisitive and easy to please. I'm lucky 'cause I get all the good stuff and don't have to deal with the bad stuff - all the "no's" and "I don't want to's". LOL

Anyway, I went back to bed after this and slept until noon.

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

Stories of an Intern...part I

2008-11-08T07:07:00.000-08:00

Last week I was doing an intake interview with a man who is severely depressed. His depression began about two years ago when his father died from multiple strokes. He became unable to function to the point where he lost his business, his wife and his house. He started drinking and wrapped his $90K car around a tree. At present, he’s homeless. And depressed. And suicidal. As I’m sitting in the room with this man, I’m feeling totally incompetent to help him. What do you say to someone who says “I want to die.” He literally almost threw himself in front of a train 3 weeks ago. The only thing that saved him was his daughter. He thought of her. He did not want her to go through the loss of her father, like he had lost his father. Oh – and about 6 weeks ago he got a brief construction gig. While at the site, another homeless man and former inmate started a fight with him. The inmate won. Big time. My client suffered a concussion and needed several stitches.

This is just one person’s story I’ve heard since starting this internship 2 months ago.

Another client was molested by her sister when she was 7 years old. This continued for over ten years. She was beaten by her older sister too. As adults now, they are estranged.
But the younger sister decided to invite her older sis over to spend the night with her kids. They both have kids now, and her intention was for the cousins to have a play date/sleep over. The two sisters ended up in the same bed. Normally, this is fine. This is what sisters do. However, in this case, it was not fine. The older sister, now in her late 30s, tried to molest her younger sister again. Can you believe that? The worst part of the story is that the older sister has children….

A client of one of my professors comes to therapy with a severe history of sexual and physical abuse. She was molested by her brother beginning at age 9. This went on for about ten years. At one point, she got pregnant from her brother and had a miscarriage. Her mother died when she was about 5 years old. Her father remarried shortly after and the new wife beat this little girl senseless. She still has scares on her face from the beatings. She eventually left the home and got married to a man that was abusive in every way. One night she left him and went to her father’s home, 2 kids in tow, bloodied and battered. Her father turned her away saying “you made your bed now lie in it.”

Pretty heavy stuff. I always knew this stuff existed. But have never been faced with it live and in person. Hearing the stories of the beaten, the battered, the depressed and the lonely certainly has an effect on a person. It’s just so sad what human beings do to each other. I’m not surprised by anything anymore. Well, not much. I know I haven’t heard it all. Every day brings new stories and new discoveries. As I travel this journey, I learn the most about myself. What I can handle, what I can’t, and what I won’t even consider working with. I’m learning how to help people cope, how to communicate with them in a way that no one has ever communicated to them in the past. It can be life changing. It’s all very fascinating really. How people survive. Sometimes, when someone is bitching to me about something stupid, I just look at them and think “it could be so much worse.” The things that people go through. It really gives me a perspective about my own life. I feel so lucky. Yes, I’m exhausted and frustrated at times, but that’s nothing. Nothing at all.

To Vegas or not to Vegas?

2008-11-07T11:22:00.000-08:00

Ray and I are undecided about going to Vegas in December.
On the one hand, I will have just finished this semester in school and would really love a visit to the spa, doing some shopping, ect. (hopefully no more "shoe incidents" like last time).
But on the other hand, If we go, I'll want to stay someplace nice and Ray will play poker, and we'll want to fly of course....eventually costing us several hundred dollars.

So, we're undecided. Who's all going from blogger land?
I've been pretty out of the blogger loop lately and would love to see everyone!

BoDonkey is Back!

2008-10-28T12:32:00.000-07:00

Bust Eric “Rizen” Lynch in tonight’s Bodonkey and receive $75 cash $$$ money in a addition to a signed copy of his book, “Winning Poker Tournaments One Hand a Time”.

Buy In: $10 + $1

Game: NL Holdem

Starting Chips: 2500

Level Duration: 15 minutes

Blind Structure: Bodog's standard structure

Prize: Prize Pool will be distributed as per Bodog's standard payout structure.

In addition, the top 3 finishers and the 3 bubble players win bonuses.

BONUS PRIZES1st place: T$109 + $25 Casino Credit ($100K Buy in)2nd place: T$753rd place: T$503 bubble players*: T$11 (entry refunded)

How to Get Started In Online Poker

2008-10-24T09:19:00.000-07:00

Playing poker online is ever increasingly popular and the game with the greatest following is Texas hold'em. Around the world thousands of people are playing Texas hold'em online every day. If you have decided to try your hand at this growing phenomenon, you may find the following tips very helpful. As you get more advanced you will realize that understanding marginal situations is crucial in poker.

The Switch -- Live Play to Online Texas Hold'em

Switching from live play to online Texas hold'em is extremely easy in practical terms. You will no longer have to worry about keeping play-dates with friends or finding enough people to play poker at any given time, as there are Texas hold'em hands running 24/7 online.

There is no longer a need to leave your home in order to play or a need to spend money on the venture. Tactically your arsenal has changed, as you will no longer be face to face with the opposition, thus reading their physical tells is not an option and you no longer have to maintain your "poker face" in play.

Instead of physical tells, you will be utilizing data collection on your opponents and paying attention to the speed and frequency with which they bet. There are also many software programs available that calculate poker odds and can assist your decision making process.

Texas Hold'em as a New Experience

If you have no experience in playing Texas hold'em, or poker in general, it is a good idea to prepare yourself ahead of time by learning the rules and basic strategies involved in Texas hold'em. The first piece of advice that you might hear repeatedly is to carefully select the hands you choose to play. Playing too many hands is the most recurring newcomer mistake in Texas hold'em.

Visiting large poker sites with free-play tables or "freerolls" is the best way to get started. Additionally, asking experienced players for advice is a good move to make.

Stepping Up the Game

The odds are against your doing well in your very first game of online Texas hold'em, but don't get discouraged. It could take some time for you to learn and or adjust to online Texas hold'em, but you will improve with time and experience. In fact, the only real way to improve is to continue playing.

Midterms.....uuuuuuuuuggggg

2008-10-21T12:11:00.000-07:00

Short post:
Since when did midterms span several weeks?
And, most of them have a "Part 1" and a "Part 2". sick.
Example:

Law and Ethics -
Part 1: in class midterm - 10 essay questions
Part 2: presentation on an ethical dilemma

Psychoanalytic Theory and Therapy:
Part 1: Take home midterm - 10 pages (bs)
Part 2: Take home midterm - a million pages (more bs)

Then, I have a 20 page paper due tomorrow, a psychological report due ASAP and 3 more clients I have set appointments with. Feel my pain?

Fantasy Football and Depression (an unintentional combo)

2008-10-10T10:30:00.000-07:00

Well, I did better last week - squeaked into the points.
But, I still have a way to go! I think I'm in like 22nd place or something - pretty sad compared to last year.

By the way, today is National Depression Screening day. We are holding screenings at ICC, the center where I intern. The screening consists of a questionnaire that actually addresses depression, anxiety, mood disorder and PTSD. The depression section asks you to rate (all of the time, most of the time, some of the time or none of the time) how you've been feeling over the past two weeks on the following:

Have you...

1. been feeling low in energy, slowed down?

2. been blaming yourself for things?

3. had poor appetite?

4. had difficulty falling asleep, staying asleep?

5. been feeling hopeless about the future?

6. been feeling blue?

7. been feeling no interest in things?

8. had feelings of worthlessness?

9. thought about or wanted to commit suicide?

10. had difficulty concentrating or making decisions?

If anyone out there thinks they might be suffering from depression and would like to talk, I'm here. Please don't hesitate to contact me.

My birthday

2008-10-02T17:36:00.001-07:00

My birthday was this past Wednesday. Ray took me to this really great restaurant in Laguna Beach called French 75 over the weekend to celebrate! I had the 3-way (he he) duck with plum sauce and Ray had Fillet Mignon. I also enjoyed a glass or two of the vino. For dessert, we had chocolate souffle...mmmmm. And, our waiter was actually French! Go figure.

Ut Oh.......could Lady Fate be any more generous?

2008-09-25T22:31:00.000-07:00

So much for the Pac-10 being No. 1 USC's personal stomping ground. Oregon State shook up the BCS on Thursday night by upsetting USC, building a 21-point halftime lead before holding off the Trojans 27-21.

Bad football weekend

2008-09-15T19:47:00.000-07:00

I know you can't win 'em all, but Come On......seriously?
Cleveland 6, Pittsburgh 10
San Diego 38, Denver 39
Ohio State 3, USC 35
And to top it all off, I'm in 35th place in the Fantasy Sports Live tourney!
Uggggg........

Can they do it?

2008-09-13T02:10:00.000-07:00

Most everyone says that Ohio State has no chance tomorrow. I say they do.

After all, everyone loves an underdog, right?

Can we talk??? It's only the game of the year!

2008-09-09T13:44:00.001-07:00

Lots going on, peeps! Ray and I went to the Chargers game last Sunday. They ended up losing to the Panthers in the last 2 seconds!! Ugg....

For a complete game recap, go here.

It was a good day though. We saw our "homies" - our other season ticket holder friends. Does anyone out there have season tix to anything? Isn't it great the comradery you build between your fellow fans?

Also, the BIGGEST GAME of the year is coming up the Saturday!!

I know USC is underestimating the Bucks. But, so are a lot of people.

Just watch our offense boyz! ya, that's them, racing past you as you wonder if the ball has even been snapped.

Good catch, Mr. Wells. Nice pass, Mr. Boeckman.

There is NOTHING like a Buckeye win!

Oh, and I'm playing the Fantasy Sport Live again this football season.

So far, I'm holding my own in 14th place, but have to do better!

Hopefully next week, I'll catch up!

Help Save Andy!

2008-09-06T00:46:00.000-07:00

Coastal German Shepherd Rescue is a non-profit 501(c)3 public charity dedicated to finding loving homes for abandoned German Shepherds in Southern California.

Coastal exists solely because of your tax deductible donations, which support our efforts to save these very deserving animals. Please donate today and help us save German Shepherds.

Fundraising target:
$3,500
Total raised so far:
$2,100.00

Special Funds Needed! Often, the decision to save a dog's life is determined by our ability to pay their medical bills, which is very disheartening.We have not been able to assist as many medical cases as our hearts have wanted to over the past couple of months due to a depleted medical fund.

We rescued Andy on his very last day, not knowing that he was very sick.
Our Boy Andy Has Pnuemonia!

Andy was rescued from a high-kill animal shelter on Friday and was quickly diagnosed with severe pneumonia. He is receiving oxygen treatments, IV antibiotics and fluids. He is initially responding, so we are very hopeful. However, we have already incurred bills of over $3000 for the first couple of days. Please help us in any way you can!
Please make a donation to help Andy!

Andy is fighting for his life!
Can you please help?

It's Hell getting old

2008-08-31T11:52:00.001-07:00

For the past two weeks, I've been working second shift (4pm to midnight). This is mostly because of my upcoming school schedule; most of my classes and my practicum (internship) hours are during the day. School starts next week and during the day of the past two weeks I've had really nothing to do. So, I got really used to sleeping in, waking up around 10 every morning, working out, going to the jacuzzi and the pool, then having lunch with Ray and finally heading to work around 3pm. I'm more of a night person anyways, so this schedule suits me just fine. Plus, we've been painfully slow at work so I have not had to stay later than midnight and often get to leave early.

The working out thing is new too. I have not worked out for about two years so have put on some weight living the good life: lots of food, lots of booze. So, I cut out the booze (mostly), started eating better and have been working out for the last several weeks. Last Wednesday I hurt myself while working out to Billy Blank's Advanced Taebo DVD. I pulled a muscle or something in my back. It's hell getting old....

I go to a chiropractor on a regular basis since I have a bad back anyway and had my regular standing appointment Saturday at 11:30am. Brainchild that I am, I also made an appointment to have my hair cut and colored - at 8:30am - the same morning. The problem? Ray and I stayed up until 2:30am Friday night. So, I only got about 4 hours of sleep before the alarm went off and I had to get up for all this shit. When I was younger, this would not have been a problem. But now I find it hard to function with this little sleep. It's hell getting old.....

Needless to say, my fuse was pretty short due to sleep deprivation.

So I drag myself up (back still aching), take the dog out, jump in the shower and head out the door....at 7:30am....uggggg. The salon I go to is in Newport Beach, which is about 20 miles away. On a good day it takes 30 minutes to get there, on a bad day an hour. With this being a holiday weekend I decided to play it safe and left an hour early. I did not want to get there late. My hairdresser is sooo awesome at what she does and I did not want to piss her off by causing her to be behind schedule. I usually take Pacific Coast Highway to get there, and it can get pretty jammed up around downtown Laguna Beach (tourists.....ick).

On my way there, I decided to see what was on the radio. One of my biggest complaints about living here is that all the radio stations Suck! I'm more of a hip hop or hard rock kinda girl and they have stations that play that stuff, sure, but it's like this: play one good song, then two crappy songs, then fifteen commercials, then talk about stupid shit, then maybe play another good song. It's frustrating! Well, the usual happened, and I got one good song then had to search for something else. God! Nothing else was on, so I played my Jimmy Buffet's greatest hits tape (yes, tape). This calms me down.

Then comes the Prias parade. Have you guys seen these cars? They are EVERYWHERE here in Cali. Not only are they ugly, but the drivers suck. They may be worse than minivan drivers. And, you can't hear them. You literally could be standing somewhere, and one of these things pulls up beside you and you wouldn't know it! I get behind one of these things, and it's going like 30 in a 40 zone and there is a stupid bus in the other lane. I exhale loudly, roll my eyes and drive probably too close to his bumper. Eventually I get around him. But there are others - all I swear just trying to piss me off!

I finally get through Laguna into a more highway type area and THEN come the bicyclers! God! Now these people are everywhere, too, in Cali. They have bike lanes - even in areas that are 55 mph! And these people usually ride in packs. And, they all have their gay-ass spandex uniforms and pointy helmets on. They show complete disregard for staying in the bike lane, and I am actually very surprised that I don't hear more on the news about bicyclers getting killed by cars. So, I have to swerve (a few times) just to get around these stupid bicyclers.

I get to the salon thirty minutes early and take a 15 minute speed nap in my car. Lindsay, my stylist, does her thing and I'm out of there in about two hours, feeling more refreshed (after several cups of coffee, a shampoo, cut and color). Then I head back the way I came. Traffic was much better this time and there were no annoying bikers. In fact, I had extra time to stop at CVS and pick up some school supplies before heading to my chiropractor appointment.

I get there and the first half hour is electrodes and ultrasound. Then comes the good part - a 30-minute massage! This is really why I continue to go so often. I mean, I do have a bad back, but with a $45 co-pay every time I go, plus a tip for the masseuse, it can get pricey if I go a few times a month. But, I chalk it up to something I do for myself, and only go once a month now. After the appointment, my back feels worse. So I limp out of the office, crawl into my car and head home. In the meantime, I notice that I have a voice message on my phone. It's my sis calling from the OSU stadium where she is watching the Buckeyes kill the fierce Youngstown State Penguins. I had forgotten about the game - oops - and by the time I got home from my morning extravaganza, the game was over. The Bucks won 43-0. Oh well. I'll catch the next one.
So I get home feeling worse and try to take a quick nap (2nd one of the day). This lasts about 30 minutes before Ray gets home and wants to go out for lunch. Great. We head over to this micro brew place called Stadium Brewery and split a pitcher of blueberry beer and get some food. After this, we run some errands and head back home. It's like 4:30 now, and I'm hurting from the lack of sleep and the intense back pain. So, I take another, yes another, nap. The third one of the day. This one, however, lasts 3 hours and I finally wake up at 7:30pm refreshed and ready to start my day...

Damn it's hell getting old.

Dear Poker, I'm just not that into you.

2008-08-27T11:20:00.000-07:00

Lately I've been feeling completely unmotivated to blog about anything. I don't play a ton of poker anymore and this was always supposed to be more of a poker blog. I decided to play a small tourney the other day thinking that it would be a nice change of pace and perhaps rekindle my interest in the game. Once into the game, pretty much the usual stuff happened: I got mostly crappy cards, and when I did get good cards nobody called. I guess I played OK because I made it to the final table. Or, maybe it was the fact that there were only 35 people in the entire thing. At the final table I had a pretty short stack and the two biggest stacks were to my left. I ended up getting sick of being pushed around, went all in with AT and got knocked out when big stack to my left had AK. uggggg......

This did nothing to rekindle the romance.

In fact, I swore I would never ever play again. I could have bought a pair of shoes. Well, not really, but that's how I think of poker in general: I would rather buy something I can keep because I know I don't play enough to really improve my game. I don't have the time. I honestly don't have the patience. And, I don't really care to. You all know my interests lie elsewhere.

So, for a while I just did not even want to blog. My so-called "poker" blog was not a poker blog anymore because there was not a lot of poker content. I got lazy and my posts became a regurgitation of facts and stories straight out of cnn.com. I was completely unmotivated to a. play poker and b. blog. I didn't have anything to blog about. Every time I sat down to draft a post, I couldn't think of anything. I didn't want to whine about my schedule or school or how sleepy I was going to be this Fall. I didn't want to blog about poker. And I certainly didn't want to post any more cnn articles. So, I just didn't post anything at all.

While talking to Ray about this, I actually decided that I wanted to abandon the whole blogging thing and give up. He reminded me that I don't have to say the right things all the time and that I don't have to deliver something full of sage wisdom. A blog can just be a journal of sorts. "Write about anything funny or stupid that happened that day", he said. And all the pressure I had put on myself to write something smart or meaningful started to subside.

So rather than trying to be smart or funny, I'm just going to be me. Which, by the way, is hopefully a little smart and a lot funny. I'll try to write more about every day experiences and my journey to become the person I've always wanted to be. This, perhaps speckled with some sage wisdom will be the "new" blog content. And, if I do play some poker along the way, I will certainly include that too.

Olympic Heroes.....

2008-08-15T07:15:00.000-07:00

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Murder Trial, part II

2008-08-11T16:59:00.000-07:00

From there, the situation escalates to a verbal confrontation. Both groups begin yelling racial slurs. The defendant yells "skin head" and "red neck" to the guy and calls the girl "slut, bitch and whore". He eggs on the other group, yelling, "do you wanna fight? do you wanna fight?". The other group yells back, calling him "fucking beaner" and tells him to "go back to your country".

The defendant is raging at this point, but his two friends manage to push him back to an area of the parking lot where their other car was. Midway there, the defendant yells out "fucking white people". This infuriates the man in the other group, who throws off his shirt and runs back to the bar to get his friend (the victim). The victim runs out of the bar, also rips off his shirt, and they head over to the car. One guy kicks the car, putting a large dent in it. The defendant gets out of the car, and a fistfight ensues.

Things get a little "fuzzy" at this point, as we heard testimony from several witnesses that contradicts where each person was located. One version says that the defendant and the victim were fighting on the ground. The defendant was on top of the victim and they were both punching each other. The other two white men were also fighting on the ground. The Korean man (friend of the defendant) pulls the defendant off the victim and that fight stops briefly. The defendant sees his friend fighting with the other man, and takes out his knife. He yells "I have a knife", intending to stop the other fight. It works for a moment and he puts the knife away. But, then the girl runs by and tags his friend (defendant's white friend) three times in the head as he is getting off the other guy.

This starts the fighting again, and the Korean man again tries to pull the defendant out of the fighting. The defendant breaks away from him, and runs to another area of the parking lot, towards the other men. He again pulls out his knife. Then, the girl runs by him, hitting him in the head once. He calls her a "f-ing bitch". Her boyfriend, the victim, charges towards him, swinging. The defendant throws what looks like three "round-house" punches. The bouncer of the establishment is close by and yells out "you've been stabbed!". The victim looks down, seeing the stab wounds and says "you f-in stabbed me???" He attempts to walk away, making it only about 20 feet and then collapses. His girlfriend, friend and the bouncer rush over to him, trying to revive him. The friend of the defendant had called 911 moments earlier, but help arrives too late.

After the stabbing, the defendant folded his knife and tried to throw it on the roof of a nearby building. It slid down, falling to the ground, where it stayed until the authorities arrived.

This happened in May of 2007. The victim was 26 at the time, and the defendant was 23; he has been in jail since the incident. The girl was convicted of 2 counts of assault, and is currently serving time in jail, now pregnant with another man's child.

The jury deliberated for two days. We found the defendant guilty of Voluntary Manslaughter. The sentencing is Sept. 26th.

Murder Trial, part I

2008-08-05T20:27:00.001-07:00

The trial is over. The verdict has been read. The story is as follows.....

The stabbing murder of Mr. J took place last year during the early morning hours of May 8th, 2007. Two groups of three people, one group of 3 men, and the other group of 2 men and 1 woman, were playing pool at a local pool hall. The first group of 3 men included the defendant, Mr. C, and his two best friends, Mr. P and Mr. Y. Mr. Y. is a large Korean man, and he drank water all night. The second man, Mr. P, is a Caucasian man, who drank one alcoholic beverage at the beginning of the night. The defendant, Mr. C, had between 6 and 8 rum and cokes.

The other group consisted of the Victim, Mr. J, his girlfriend, Miss. L, and their friend, Mr. D. They consumed several drinks throughout the night, including several shots of red-headed slut, several Red Bull and Vodkas, and two pitchers of beer. There were no problems between the two groups while inside the bar that night. After last call, around 12:30am the groups started heading out of the bar. Mr. P headed out first, followed shortly after Mr. C and Mr. Y. They continued to chit-chat outside the bar, and two of the men smoked cigarettes. They were standing by Mr. Y’s car, which was parked just to the right of the door, next to an exit ramp.

Next, Mr. D and Miss L exit. She is riding piggy-back on him, and they are spinning round and round. They then bump into Mr. P accidentally. She dismounts, and they apologize to Mr. P. Now, Mr. P has a pool stick in his right hand. It has been broken down into two pieces, folded and is down at his right side. For some reason, Mr. D notices the pool stick, and says something like “What are you going to do with that pool cue?” Mr. P does not reply. Instead, the defendant, Mr. C responds “P is not doing anything with the pool stick”. The attention of Mr. D and Miss L turns towards the defendant. Mr. D tells Mr. C “fuck you”.

To be continued....

Tao poker

2008-08-05T20:24:00.000-07:00

LOLOLOL

I played in Dr. Pauly's tourney tonight and donked out 400-something.
QQ vs. KK......oops!

Ray just shook his head.

Coconut Shrimp Recipe

2008-07-26T18:24:00.000-07:00

This is really great!

Coconut Shrimp with Orange Marmalade

2 cups shredded sweetened coconut
2 cups bread crumbs
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper
2 cups all-purpose flour
4 large eggs, beaten
24 large shrimp, peeled and deveined
Vegetable oil, for frying

Dipping Sauce:
1/2 cup orange marmalade
1 to 2 tablespoons dark rum

In a large bowl, combine coconut and bread crumbs and season with salt and pepper. Place flour, eggs, and bread crumb mixture into 3 separate bowls. Dredge the shrimp in flour and shake off excess. Next, dip the shrimp thoroughly in the egg and rub against the side of the bowl to lightly remove excess. Finally, coat the shrimp thoroughly with the bread crumb mixture. Lay out the shrimp so they do not touch on a parchment-lined baking sheet or platter until ready to fry. In a large Dutch oven, heat several inches of oil to 350 degrees F. Fry the shrimp in batches until golden brown and cooked through, about 3 to 4 minutes per batch. Be careful not to overcrowd shrimp in the oil while frying. Drain on paper towels.

For the Dipping Sauce: heat the marmalade in a small saucepan over low heat. Thin with rum as desired.

The Last Lecture

2008-07-25T15:06:00.000-07:00

(CNN) -- Randy Pausch, the professor whose "last lecture" became a runaway phenomenon on the Internet and was turned into a best-selling book, died Friday of pancreatic cancer, Carnegie Mellon University announced on its Web site.

Pausch, 47, a computer science professor, delivered the lecture, "Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams," at Carnegie Mellon in September 2007, a month after being told he had three to six months to live because his cancer had returned.

The lanky, energetic Pausch talked about goals he had accomplished, like experiencing zero gravity and creating Disney attractions, and those he had not, including becoming a professional football player.

He used rejections he was handed when he applied for jobs at Disney to comment on the importance of persistence.

"The brick walls are there for a reason ... to show us how badly we want something," he said. "Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who don't want it badly enough. They're there to stop the other people."

On Jury Duty

2008-07-24T19:42:00.000-07:00

I've been selected for jury duty.
It's a murder trial.
Can't say anything about it now, but will let you know what's up latah.

Ray's Birthday

2008-07-14T19:27:00.000-07:00

Tomorrow is Ray's birthday!
I took him out to a nice dinner on Saturday at the Salt Creek Grill in Dana Point.
Sunday we went on Ray's brother's boat for some ocean fishing.
We both got a few nibbles, but weren't able to pull anything up.
As part of Ray's birthday gifts, I got him a new fishing poll. He was so excited!!
And, we got a tutorial on how to tie knots from the guy at SportMart.
Good times.
I got a little sick on the boat, but was able to keep my lunch down. Whew!
Tomorrow I have a special little surprise for Ray.....

Next Saturday we are hosting an OCPT home game.
It's a standard $20+Rebuy special event structure.
Cards are in the air at 6PM.
Look here for info on the record breaking attendance and prize pool the last time we hosted an event.

I'm in charge of the food again.
This time, I think I will make the meatballs I made last time, a sweet and sour keilbasa dish, maybe a pasta, and perhaps some pizza bagels. Plus the regular stuff like chips and a cheese plate with crackers. If anyone knows of any other quick and easy appetizers, lemme know. I'm alway game to try something new!

Practicum

2008-07-10T22:26:00.000-07:00

I have my practicum (mini internship - 16 hours a week for a year) assignment for this fall/spring/summer.
I'll be working at the Intercommunity Counseling Center, in Whittier, doing Psychological testing. I'll basically be doing cognitive testing, which determines IQ, information processing speed, abstract reasoning, etc, maybe some learning disability testing, including ADHD and reading/math problems.

I'll also be doing personality testing with the MMPI, the PAI and the Rorschach.
These tests tell us more about how the individual performs on an intimate level - personality type, tendencies; potentially why people do what they do.

Weeeeeeeeeeeee.....grades

2008-07-10T22:21:00.000-07:00

Getting good grades is FUN.
I got an A from Dr. A-(and I didn't even have to wear The Hoochie Shirt)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Weeeeeeeeeeeee!!

Well, not sure it's fun. But it's a lot of hard work. And it feels goooood.
Lana - to answer your previous question, yes, I would post if I got a B or C.
If I get anything lower, I'm O-U-T of the program.
Let's just hope I have the strength and will to work my ass off to get more A's.

I Want My rent

2008-07-09T22:43:00.001-07:00

Funny Sheet!!

Prayers, please

2008-06-24T18:08:00.001-07:00

I'll continue the Vegas trip report after I finish my final paper tomorrow.
But for now, our brother needs us.
If you are the praying kind, please include them in your prayers.
If not, please keep them in your thoughts.

Vegas Day 2

2008-06-18T10:52:00.000-07:00

Saturday morning I headed down to the spa for my massage/detox/relaxation.

After about 3 bottles of water my name was called by this tiny little Japanese woman who announced she would be my therapist. She chatted rapidly as we walked to the massage room, and I simply nodded my head several times as I could not understand half of what she was saying. This little lady proceeded to give me the best massage I think I've ever had! I get massages on a pretty regular basis - part of physical therapy for a bad back - and this one was truly amazing! I will definitely go back to her the next time I'm in Vegas. She even massaged my scalp - I love that - and ended with a eucalyptus wrap on my feet, and at my temples while she massaged them too.

I also jumped into the jacuzzi for a while. It was very hot and bubbly. I was the only one there (good thing, cause I forgot my suit). After my morning of relaxation, I headed back up to the room to meet my hubby. He was happily blogging and playing on line cash games.

Before catching a cab to the Caesars, I wanted to return those horrible shoes I bought the night before. Luckily, we spotted the same store, Shooz, at the Paris. We went in and I explained that I had bought these shoes the night before at the Venetian, I hardly wore them, and they are painfully uncomfortable. The snobby sales girl raised her eyebrow at me, as if to say, "ya, you probably wore these out partying last night, and can't afford them, so want to return them." (she and I hit it off immediately, as I called her Bio-tch several times in my head). She called her manager over and she looked at the bottom of the shoes, shaking her head and smirking, she said "Oh, these have been worn. We can only give you an in-store credit. And, Oh, since they've been worn, we'll have to adjust the price down". BITCH! Anyway, I looked around the store and found this really cute Guess handbag. But, it had a little scratch on the front. I asked the first girl if she had another one in the back, and without checking, she said, "no, I'm sorry, we don't". She did ofter to try and "clean" the scratch off. This only made it worse. I asked her if she "could adjust the price down" because of the scratch, and she said "no, because someone else might want to buy it." BITCH! At this point I'm in tears, frustrated about being treated this way, and sick because I spent the money foolishly the night before. I basically decided to keep the original shoes and left that store. I will never buy from them again.

After this great experience, Ray and I went for lunch. He had promised me that we would have sushi this weekend, and we did. We ended up at Ichiban @ Bally's. We had a great little waitress! I ordered a glass of plum wine, and when she brought it, it actually had a small, unripened plum in it. It kinda looked like a brain, and made me laugh, dissolving the tension and frustration from that stupid shoe store - aaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh back to my Zen place.

We took a quick little detour to the Rio to meet up with Pauly, Cali Jen and to check on F-Train. Pauly was awesome, as usual, and was on his way out to a concert. Before he left, he introduced us to Cali Jen. She and Ray talked business for a second, then Ray and Pauly chatted. Jen and I joked about poker, the players, getting into the Main Event, etc., girl-talking until Ray was ready to go. We said our good-byes and headed out.

We went over to Caesars from there to see how everyone was doing in the noon $340 Megastack tournament. We got there around 5:30pm to find out only Astin and Weak_Player were still alive riding short stacks. Ray played cash games, and I continued my "luxuriation" and went shopping. I ended up at the best little lingerie shop in the world. Yes, I made a purchase. Ray was in heaven. This is one purchase I will not be returning. We headed back to our room @ the Paris...

When we got there, we discovered a cold bottle of champagne and chocolate covered strawberries that were delivered seemingly several hours prior. The ice was almost completely melted but the bottle was still cold. I immediately told Ray that it was probably from Naida at Bodog. But, since there was no card or note I got on the phone to room service to identify the culprit. Evidentally, they had no record of the delivery, and therefore no name. They said to "enjoy" the mix-up (this was no cheap bottle of champagne, by the way).

Since we were dead tired, we decided to save it for the morning and have mimosas with breakfast in the room. However, I couldn't resist the urge to take in one of the strawberries. It put a BIG smile on my face and sent me happily off to dreamland.

Vegas Trip Report - Day 1

2008-06-17T19:08:00.000-07:00

We got up pretty early on Friday morning, finished packing, loaded the car with our luggage and were on our way. We first had to drop off the baby donkey, and he was NOT happy about leaving his Mamma! The guy at the "Pet Hotel" had to drag little Smokkee away, and as he was being dragged away, he gave me the saddest look....... it broke my heart!

Once that was over, Ray and I headed to the airport. The flight was over in the blink of an eye and we were in Vegas. We got to our hotel quickly as well (the room was awesome and we got a view of the strip and the Bellagio fountains!), unpacked and freshened up, then headed to the Venetian, as planned. As soon as we walked up to the poker room we ran into Bayne, CK, LJ and VinNay. Later, Cmitch stopped to chat. I made Bayne promise to come find me if he hit the craps tables up again - I wanted to check out his method of play. Ray and I have been playing on the Bodog online Casino recently and I wanted to compare notes with Bayne. But, I never saw Bayne again.....

Here's a view from our room:

Ray sat down for some cash games and I walked around the floor seeking out bloggers. I saw Astin in the distance and nodded a hello, then spotted sprstoner closerby and headed over to chat. He was about to leave for the 2nd chance at the Rio, so our chat was a quick one. After he left, I headed back to Ray's table. He had been moved to another table that included Don, Weak, Cmitch, CK and later Astin. I pulled up a chair and observed the table happily (sipping my free white wine) until Ray had to leave for his 8pm tourney. After that I headed out for some shopping. I found this little shoe boutique (Shooz) and headed inside. After browsing, I found the cutest pair of shoes! I tried them on, bought them right away and headed back to Ray's table to show him my prize. On the way there, I stopped to change into them first. Once I got to Ray's table, I proudly showed off my new purchase and he barely batted an eye at them - humph!

"The Shoes":

As I was sitting with Ray during his tourney, I was glancing around and recognized this guy walking down the hall past me. I excitedly shouted "Hey! Are you Eugene Todd? (he grinned and shook his head yes) My husband is obsessed with you! Would you mind saying hello?" He jumped the tourney rope and struck up a conversation with Ray (who was beaming). I think that was the highlight of Ray's trip.

After this and some more walking around (feet hurting more and more), I met CK, Don, Weak, Cmitch and Astin for dinner. It was great to actually sit down and talk to everyone without having to worry about interrupting a hand. The food was great too! After dinner, I packaged up my leftovers, knowing my hubby would be hungry, and we all left. Everyone else called it a night and I headed back to Ray's tourney (feet hurting like a bitch now). He busted out shortly after. I changed back into my other shoes, cursing the new ones, and we headed back to our hotel to call it a night.

Tomorrow! tomorrow!

2008-06-12T22:09:00.001-07:00

Tomorrow we leave for the Las Vegas!

Drop the baby donkey off at 11am, get to the airport by noon for lunch and a bloody mary.

Then, fly away!

See you there!

Incest dungeon teen wants to see ocean

2008-06-12T11:02:00.000-07:00

UPDATE ON THIS CASE:
(CNN) -- The 19-year-old woman whose hospitalization exposed a shocking Austrian incest case is recovering well and wants to see the ocean and a pop concert, her doctors and a family lawyer said Wednesday.

Dr. Albert Reiter, who treated Kerstin, is confident Kerstin will make a full recovery in time.

She and other children who were held captive for years are slowly adapting to modern life, they said. Kerstin Fritzl, whom doctors placed in an artificial coma after she was admitted to a hospital in April for multiple organ failure, is now well enough to speak, stand and walk with assistance, her doctors said. Doctors said that "little novelties" such as seeing a cloud go by are now big events for the former captives.

Kerstin has said she wants to see the ocean and go to a concert by British singer Robbie Williams, said Dr. Berhold Kepplinger, director of the clinic where the family is living. He described how excited Kerstin was to hear Robbie Williams songs in her hospital room and said she was moving around to the music so much that doctors had to quiet her down.

The two parts of her family -- those who were locked in a basement, like Kerstin, and those who lived above ground, apparently unaware of the abuse of their mother and siblings -- are getting to know each other again, the doctors and the family's lawyer said.

"Kerstin is the oldest daughter of an incestuous relationship between Elisabeth, 43, and Elisabeth's father, Josef Fritzl, 73, according to police. He is awaiting trial. Police say he confessed to holding Elisabeth captive since 1984 and raping her repeatedly, fathering seven children with her. Six of the children survived.

Kerstin and two of her brothers, ages 18 and 5, had spent their entire lives trapped in the cellar with their mother, never seeing daylight. A television was their only contact with the outside world.The other three children Josef Fritzl fathered with Elisabeth were taken as infants to live above ground with Fritzl and his wife, who says she had no idea her daughter was being held captive.

BoDonkey TOC tonight!!

2008-06-10T12:08:00.000-07:00

TOC Qualifiers listed 1st-18th:

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Grand Prize: $12,000 WSOP* Prize Package with Team Bodog

2nd: T$540

3rd: T$379

4th: T$270

5th: T$109

GOOD LUCK TO ALL!! (especially Smokkee)

Vegas in 4

2008-06-09T13:10:00.000-07:00

We head to Vegas this Friday!

I'm very excited and have already been planning what I'm going to wear, and what shoes I need to pack. I know much of the time will be spent hanging out in poker rooms, but I don't care!

I love to dress up, and it's my vacation damn it! Anyway, not too many blogger peeps will be out there, so the gatherings will be smaller. But I will still take lots of pictures!

While we are there, Ray plans to play some tournaments and cash games.

I may even play some as well.

Most likely though I will spend my money on the spa or shoes. lol

We are staying at the Paris Hotel, which I'm pretty excited about.

I've always wanted to stay there.

They have some really cool shops, including a wine shop.

We will probably spend some time at the Rio also.

I don't mind this because they also have a wine shop, and they have wine and cheese tastings.

Hmmmm.....do I like wine?

Thus ended one of the most horrible crimes ever committed against a single victim

2008-06-07T16:15:00.000-07:00

Ray and I watched this movie last night.
It's a story about two girls who are in a car accident that not only claims the lives of their parents, but maims one of the girls. They are placed in the "care" of their Aunt Ruth after the accident.

It contains instances of shockingly violent and sadistic child abuse. The worst part is, it's based on true events.
This story haunts me - Child abuse is such a disturbing issue for me - especially at this level.

There is no reason, no excuse, no explanation for this other than it happened at the hands of a sick, psychotic, f-ed up bitch of a woman who has no soul and who now rots in Hell.

Here's the summary:
Inspired by true events, this thriller set in 1958 follows the harrowing story of two adolescent girls (Blythe Auffarth, Madeline Taylor), who upon losing their parents in an accident are sent to live with their Aunt Ruth (Blanche Baker), a sadistic psychopath. Unbeknownst to the residents of the small New Jersey suburb, the girls endure unthinkable punishment at the hands of their aunt and three cousins.

Some information about the real story of The Torturing Death of Sylvia Marie Likens:

On October 26, 1965, Indianapolis police answered a call saying that a girl had died. The call came from a pay telephone in front of a Shell station in a poor section of the city. The caller was a teenaged boy whose voice had not finished changing into that of an adult man. He sounded very nervous and directed the police to the address, 3850 East New York Street, at which they would find the dead female.

When the cops got to the dingy, rundown, clapboard home to which the anonymous caller had directed them, they found the emaciated dead body of 16-year-old Sylvia Marie Likens. She was covered with bruises and small wounds, later revealed to be cigarette and match burns that numbered over 100. There were also large areas where the outer layer of skin had peeled off. Likens also had a large letter "3" branded on her chest. However, the most remarkable injuries, by far, were the words in block letters that had been burned directly onto her stomach: "I'M A PROSTITUTE AND PROUD OF IT!"

Thus ended one of the most horrible crimes ever committed against a single victim.

The crime had been perpetrated by an informal group of teenagers and children, some as young as 11 and 12, led by a 37-year-old woman. That woman's name was Gertrude Baniszewski.

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